Thursday, May 14, 2009

ring...ring...ring...banana phone!

So, this topic really got me thinking. Pretty much everyone has a cell phone now-a-days. People use them to talk to their friends, for buisness, for pleasure, etc. They seem to be just a normal part of everyday society. I really do think people abuse their cell phones though. They are constantly in use, especially when they shouldn't be. At the movies, with your friends, at events, parties and family functions, and at school. People need to realize that constantly using the phone is rude.

So picture this, here I am, on the bus trying to enjoy my long bus ride home when suddenly the whole bus is filled with an extremely loud song that no one actually wants to hear - it is a ringtone, someone is using their phone at the front of the bus talking very loudly. Why must the phone be that loud when you are in a public place? If it is in their pocket they should just keep it on vibrate. People should really have some common courtesy for others.

Everyone needs to realize there is a time and place for everything. Sure, I may use my phone at school to figure out where my friends are going, when the next seminar is etc. But my phone is always on vibrate, I don't talk on it around my friends or during school, and I am definately polite about it.

So here, I have come up with 5 rules for phone use:

1) Keep it on vibrate ! - No one really wants to hear that extremely loud, extremely annoying song blaring from your phone. It does not make you cool. And it just leads to your phone getting taken away at school. You are just asking for it.

2) Be polite ! - There is no need to talk loudly when in a public place. As Mrs. Kopach would say, use your 15cm voice. Just because the person is a bunch of kilometres away does NOT mean you need to yell that loud. Think of the people around you.

3) There is a time and place for phone use ! - It is very rude to use your phone when with your friends, family, at an event, party and school. Who could you possible be texting or calling when you are already with your friends. There someone is, trying to have a conversation with you, and you are not paying attention because you are typing on your phone. Not cool. When you are at a party or event people will think you don't want to be there if you are constantly on your phone. It can distance you from everyone. At the movies, I constantly see bright lights in my peripheral vision, it distracts me from the movie!

4) Get a watch ! - It really is annoying when someone constantly pulls out their phone to check the time. Especially when you are trying to talk to them. Phone does not = watch. Just buy a watch.

5) Ask permission ! - If you are with someone and your phone happens to vibrate or ring or whatever, do not just pull it out and begin to talk. It's rude to the people you are with. You should say something like "Excuse me, but do you mind if I take this?" or "Sorry, this is really important, I will just be a minute." Something that is not hard to do will definately make a big difference.


These rules are not too much. All I am asking for is some common courtesy people!

Now, if you don't mind, my pocket is vibrating.

Thanks for reading :)

3 comments:

Unknown said...

Ha Ha Ha, after reading this I think it is time for me to buy a watch. Yes I am guilty for always checking my phone for the time, even when I am in a deep conversation with a person! I liked your points, especially the watch one. And yes, I agree with you. HOW ANNOYING iS IT WHEN A RINGTONE PLAYS THAT NOBODY WANTS TO HEAR? I learned a few lessons from this blog, aha thanks alot!

-Victoria

Cassandra.m said...

Alright, so before i even comment on your blg, i have to give you credit on the title! RING RING RING BANANA PHONE! one of my favortie songs till this day!

Getting back on topic, im also horrible with my phone. It is constantly glued to me 24/7. It's my clock, my alarm, my calendar, even my calculator!
Thanks for the tips tho :)

-cormac- said...

First off, nice blog Amanda!
Most of your rules were great, except I don't really like the watch one. In these tough economic times, I can't afford both a watch and a phone :P.

But yeah like Cassandra, my phone is also my calculator for math half the time....wow embarassing.

Well nice job!